Got a Problem?

Jul 27, 2006 @ 06:47 am by Ron


If you think you`re beaten you are,
If you think you dare not, you don`t.
If you like to win, but think you can`t,
It is almost certain you won`t.

If you think you`ll lose, you`re lost.
For out of the world we find,
Success begins with a fellow`s will-
It`s all in the state of mind.

If you think you`re outclassed, you are,
You`ve got to think high to rise.
You`ve got to be sure of yourself before
You can ever win that prize.

Life`s battles don`t always go
To the stonger or faster man,
But soon or late the man who wins
Is the man WHO THINKS HE CAN !

~~ Rudyard Kipling

How many problems are you having in your life right now? There are probably at least one or two, right? Problems are a natural occurrence in every human life. There is always “something”!


The question isn’t whether people have problems, the question is how do they handle them?

Unfortunately, most people set out to deal with their problem by focusing on the problem itself. The fact is, when you focus on the problem itself, it tends to take on a life of its own. It seems as though the more you focus on it, the bigger it becomes and the solution never seems to rise to the surface and you end up with a more confusion than you expected.

On the other hand, you can’t just ignore the problem either, in the hope that it will just go away on its own. That works about as well as putting too much focus on it. You have to stay with the issue — you have to give it your full attention — but — here’s the secret — you also have to quit putting your focus on the problem itself.

Rather, what will really help you, is to turn your attention around. Turn it away from the problem, and turn it toward what you see in your life after the problem is solved to your satisfaction. Focus on how you will feel when this problem no longer exists. Let your mind imagine the best possible outcome you can think of.

Try it. You’ll see what I mean. When you put your mind on the solution to the problem, rather than the problem itself, you will find yourself behaving differently. Your belief structure will change as you see yourself living with the problem solved.

Anyone is capable of doing this. We tend to follow the crowd and focus on the problems of life — that’s what everyone seems to be doing, right? But it’s backwards — be different and focus on the best possible solutions to life’s problems, and you will see that when you really believe something will happen, the universe will move to make it happen.

~~~ DBL-R

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