“That Was the Wonderfulest Christmas”

Dec 20, 2007 @ 08:18 am by Ron


Christmas gift suggestions:

To your enemy, forgiveness.
To an opponent, tolerance.
To a friend, your heart.
To a customer, service.
To all, charity.
To every child, a good example.
To yourself, respect.

~~~ Oren Arnold

Today’s article is a favorite story for this holiday season. So, rather than the usual article, I’d like to share this beautiful story with you. I know I did this same story last year — and I’ll probably still do it next year. Let’s call it a “tradition” for this blog.

It’s Simple. Charming. Heart-warming. An expression of gratitude. Love. Compassion. Acceptance. Abundance.

It’s a little piece called “Christmas Story” by John Henry Faulk. Faulk was a gifted storyteller and former radio broadcaster. He first recorded his Christmas Story in 1974 for the program “Voices in the Wind.”

National Public Radio started a tradition of airing Faulk’s story every year during this holiday season, so if you’re a regular listener you have probably heard it. But here it is anyway. I hope you enjoy it.

I won’t be writing here next week, so look for a new article on January 3rd.

Have a wonderful holiday season!

Shanti,

Ron
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To hear an audio of John Henry Faulk reading the Christmas Story, go to —

http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=5028755

There’s a link to the audio at the top of the page — Look for the “Listen Now” button. There’s also a link there so you can download the story as an mp3 file.

http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=5028755

Or — You can read the story right here …. or follow along as you listen to it …..
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The day after Christmas a number of years ago, I was driving down a country road in Texas. And it was a bitter cold, cold morning. And walking ahead of me on the gravel road was a little bare-footed boy with non-descript ragged overalls and a makeshift sleeved sweater tied around his little ears. I stopped and picked him up. Looked like he was about 12 years old and his little feet were blue with the cold. He was carrying an orange.

And he got in and had the brightest blue eyes one ever saw. And he turned a bright smile on my face and says, “I’m-a going down the road about two miles to my cousins. I want to show him my orange old Santa Claus brought me.” But I
wasn’t going to mention Christmas to him because I figured he came from a family — the kind that don’t have Christmas. But he brought it up himself. He said, “Did old Santa Claus come to see you, Mister?” And I said, “Yes. We had a real nice Christmas at our house and I hope you had the same.”

He paused for a moment, looked at me. And then with all the sincerity in the world said, “Mister, we had the wonderfulest Christmas in the United States down to our place. Lordy, it was the first one we ever had had there. See, we never do have them out there much. Don’t notice when Christmastime comes. We heared about it, but never did have one ’cause — well, you know, it’s just papa says that old Santa Claus — papa hoorahs a lot and said old Santa Claus was scared to bring his reindeer down into our section of the county because folks down there so hard up that they liable to catch one of his reindeer and butcher him for meat.

But just several days before Christmas, a lady come out from town and she told all the families through there, our family, too, that they was — old Santa
Claus was come in town to leave some things for us and if papa’d go in town, he could get some Christmastime for all of us. And papa hooked up the mule and wagon. He went in town. But he told us children, said, “Now don’t ya’ll get all worked up and excited because there might not be nothing to this yarn that lady told.”

And–but, shucks, he hadn’t got out of sight up the lane there till we was done a-watching for him to come back. We couldn’t get our minds on nothing else, you know. And mama, she’d come to the door once in a while and say, “Now ya’ll quit that looking up the lane because papa told you there might not be nothing.” And — but long about the middle of the afternoon, well, we heared the team a-jangling harness a-coming and we ran out in the front yard, and Ernie, my little brother, called out and said, “Yonder come papa.” And here come them mules just in a big trot, you know, and papa standing upright in the bed of that wagon holding two big old chickens, all the feathers picked off. And he was just yelling, “Merry Christmas. Merry Christmas.” And the team stopped right in front of the gate. And all us children just went a-swarming out there like a flock of chichis, you know, and just a-crawling over that wagon and a-looking in.

And, Mister, I wish you could have seen what was in that wagon. It’s bags of stripety candy and apples and oranges and sacks of flour and some real coffee, you know, and just all tinselly and pretty and we couldn’t say nothing. Just kind of held our breath and looked at it, you know. And papa standing there just waving them two chickens, a-yelling, “Merry Christmas to you. Merry Christmas to you,” and a-laughing that big old grin on his face. And mama, she come a-hurrying out with the baby in her arms, you know. And when she looked in that wagon, she just stopped, and then papa, he dropped them two chickens and reached and caught the baby out of her arms, you know, and held him up and said, “Merry Christmas to you, Santa Claus.” And baby, little old Alvie Lee, he just laughed like he knowed it was Christmas, too, you know. And mama, she started telling us the name of all of them nuts. They wasn’t just peanuts. They was — she had names for all of them. She — mama knows a heap of things like that. She’d seen that stuff before, you know? And we was, all of us, just a-chattering and a-going on at the same time, us young’uns, a-looking in there.

And all of a sudden, we heared papa call out, “Merry Christmas to you, Sam Jackson.” And we stopped and looked. And here comes Sam Jackson a-leading that old cripple-legged mule of his up the lane. And papa said, “Sam Jackson, did you get in town to get some Christmas this year?” Sam Jackson, you know, he sharecrops over there across the creek from our place. And he shook his head and said, “Well, no, sir, Mister. Well, I didn’t go in town. I heared about that, but I didn’t know it was for colored folks, too. I thought it was just for you white families.” All of a sudden, none of us children were saying nothing. Papa, he looked down at mama and mama looked up at him and they didn’t say nothing, like they don’t a heap of times, but they know what the other one’s a-thinking. They’re like that, you know. And all of a sudden, papa, he broke out in a big grin again. He said, “Dad-blame-it, Sam Jackson, it’s a sure a good thing you come by here. Lord have mercy, I liked to forgot. Old Santa Claus would have me in court if he heared about this. The last thing he asked me if I lived out here near you. Said he hadn’t seen you around and said he wanted me to bring part of this out here to you and your family, your woman and your children.”

Well, sir, Sam Jackson, he broke out in a big grin. Papa says, “I’ll tell you what to do. You get your wife and children and you come down here tomorrow morning. It’s going to be Christmastime all day long. Come early and stay late.” Sam Jackson said, “You reckon?” And mama called out to him and said, “Yes, and you tell your wife to be sure and bring some pots and pans because we’re going to have a heap of cookin’ to do and I ain’t sure I’ve got enough to take care of all of it.” Well, sir, old Sam Jackson, he started off a-leading that mule up the lane in a full trot, you know, and he was a-heading home to get the word to his folks and his children, you know.

And next morning, it just — you remember how it was yesterday morning, just rosy red and looked like Christmastime. It was cold, but you didn’t notice the cold, you know, when the sun just come up, just all rosy red. And us young’uns were all out of bed before daylight seemed like, just running in the kitchen and smelling and looking. And it was all there sure enough. And here come Sam Jackson and his team and his wife and his five young’uns in there. And they’s all lookin’ over the edge. And we run out and yelled, “Merry Christmas. Merry Christmas.” And papa said, “Christmas gift to you, Sam Jackson. Ya’ll come on in.” And they come in and mama and Sister Jackson, they got in the kitchen and they started a-cooking things up. And us young’uns started playing Christmastime. And it’s a lot of fun, you know. We’d just play Christmas Gift with one another and run around and around the house and just roll in the dirt, you know, and then we started playing Go Up To The Kitchen Door And Smell. And we’d run up and smell inside that kitchen door where mama and Sister Jackson was a-cooking at, and then we’d just die laughing and roll in the dirt, you know, and go chasing around and playing Christmas Gift.

And we played Christmastime till we just wore ourselves out. And papa and Sam Jackson–they put a table up and put some sheets over it, some boards up over some sawhorses. And everybody had a place, even the baby. And mama and Sister Jackson said, “Well, now it’s ready to come on in. We’re going to have Christmas dinner.” And I sit right next to Willy Jackson, you know, and he just rolled his eyes at me and I’d roll mine at him. And we’d just die laughing, you know, and there was an apple and an orange and some stripety candy at everybody’s place. And that was just dessert, see. That wasn’t the real Christmas dinner. Mama and them had done cooked that up. And they just had it spread up and down the table.

And so papa and Sam Jackson, they’d been sitting on the front porch and they come in. Papa, he sit at one end of the table, Sam Jackson sit at the other. And it was just a beautiful table like you never had seen. And I didn’t know nothing could ever look like that and smell that good, you know. And Sam Jackson, you know, he’s real black and he had on that white clean shirt of his and then them overalls. Everything had been washed and was real clean. Papa, he said, “Brother Jackson, I believe you’re a deacon in the church. I ain’t much of a church man myself, but I believe you’re a deacon. Maybe you’d be willing to give grace.”

Well, Sam Jackson, he stood up there and his hands is real big and he kind of held onto the side of the table, you know. But he didn’t bow his head like a heap of folks do when they’re saying the blessing. He just looked up and smiled. And he said, “Lord, I hope you having as nice a Christmas up there with your angels as we’re having down here because it sure is Christmastime down here. And I just wanted to say Merry Christmas to you, Lord.

Like I say, Mister, I believe that was the wonderfulest Christmas in the United States of America.”‘

I wish you and yours a peaceful, joyous, loving holiday!

Shanti,

~~~ Ron
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Let Your Light Shine!

Dec 13, 2007 @ 09:51 am by Ron


“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness, that frightens us most. We ask ourselves, ‘Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, and famous?’ Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that people won’t feel insecure around you. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It’s not just in some of us; it’s in all of us. And when we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.”
—- Used by Nelson Mandela in his 1994 inaugural speech —-

~~~ Maryanne Williamson

Do you have a gift that was a part of you when you were born? You’d be amazed at the number of people who will say that they don’t. Yet, there’s no doubt in my mind that each and every one of us was born into this world with at least one unique gift. Every one of us has a light within us that has the potential to make our world a more beautiful place.

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Every one of us has this wonderfulness within us, but so many of us are reluctant to let it shine. It’s there, but no one can see it — not even ourselves. Usually this is caused by various fears and feelings of inadequacy. If we dare to let our light shine we might be afraid that it will attract attention — or we might face the chance that someone will reject us — or we’re afraid of the responsibilities that may come from success — or people might think that we’re just showing off.


“If you look deep within, you will find a brilliant light. Too many, far too many, squint and turn away from the shine. Let your eyes adjust, and bathe in the radiance.”

~~~ Anonymous

Think about it, though — if we hide that light — if we don’t let people see our talents — if we quash our dreams — what are we doing? We’re denying ourselves and a multitude of others some wonderful experiences. Your abilities are a part of who you are and when you take pride in them, you affirm the love, esteem, and trust with which you view yourself. Another great benefit of letting your light shine is that you will grant others permission to do the same so that they too, can enjoy the exploration of their dreams and talents.

So many of us are taught from childhood to hide our innate talents. Sometimes a relative will caution us that if we follow the path of our talent we won’t be able to get a good job. It can also happen where our peers might be envious of our skills and become overly critical. Many parents get after us to not be a show-off and we end up being overly humble.


“We need less posturing and more genuine charisma. Charisma was originally a religious term, meaning “of the spirit” or “inspired.” It’s about letting God’s light shine in us. It’s about a sparkle in people that money can’t buy. It’s an invisible energy with visible effects. To let go, to just love, is not to fade into the wallpaper. Quite the contrary, it’s when we truly become bright. We’re letting our own light shine.”

~~~ Marianne Williamson

What we need to remember is that there is huge difference between showing off and letting your light shine — letting your talent show. When you let the world know what you can do you will become a more complete person — you will become who you truly are. It doesn’t matter what your talent happens to be — you might be a first-rate cook — or a great writer — or a brilliant musician — or a math whiz — whatever it is, you’ll learn that you’re not doing anyone any favors if you hide that talent — that light within you.

What do you do if you’ve hidden your light for so long that it’s just a dim ember? I’d suggest that you make a list of everything you do well. It doesn’t matter if it seems silly, or unimportant, or impractical. Be sure to include in your list those things that you know you could do well, but have never given yourself the chance to do them. Just write it all down. Then, look at your list and think about how you can incorporate some of these things into your daily life. Meditate about it. You won’t need to make a big deal about it. Just quietly go about your life with these gifts and talents added into what you’ve been doing. You can rest assured that if you do this, you will be making a difference in the world.

As Dwight L. Moody says in this quote …


“We are told to let our light shine, and if it does, we won’t need to tell anybody it does. Lighthouses don’t fire cannons to call attention to their shining- they just shine.”

~~~ Dwight L. Moody

Namaste!

And, as I always say in closing — remember these words …


You are the most precious gift you can give yourself. Every day look in the mirror and say, “I’m available to more good than I have experienced, realized or imagined ever before in my life!” Do this every day while you look into your own eyes.

You are special — and you are loved. You are the greatest gift you can be.

Shanti … (A sanscrit word meaning, “Let there be Peace. Peace, beautiful Peace. Peace within, Peace without. Peace in this world. Peace for all beings.”)


“Peace comes from within. Do not seek it without.”

~~~ Buddha

~~~ DBL-R

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Regular, daily meditation can give you …

(1) Increased intelligence and creativity.
(2) Lower stress levels — and with that — increased ability to handle whatever the world tosses your way.
(3) New levels of self-awareness and inner peace.
(4) The healing of emotional issues at the deepest levels —

— it’s definitely worth taking the time for this powerful practice every day.

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The Beginner’s Mind

Dec 06, 2007 @ 09:33 am by Ron


“Learn from yesterday, live for today, hope for tomorrow. The important thing is not to stop questioning.”

~~~ Albert Einstein

During this past week or so, there have been a variety of “opportunities for growth” taking place in my environment. Out of all this came several moments where there was a choice to either stay rigid in certain beliefs and philosophies, or to ask questions and seek new answers. So much of this led to a reinforcement of one of the Buddhist tenets — that of impermanence — that nothing is permanent — and the concept of “The Beginner’s Mind”.

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There’s no doubt that one of the greatest threats we all face from time-to-time is when something happens that makes us question our current beliefs or our perceptions of reality. However, since I’m getting “a bit long in the tooth” I’ve learned that questioning is a great way to keep my mind supple and strong. As we get older, it’s so easy to keep settling on one way of seeing things and being rigid about examining other possibilities. That’s why I’m delighted to have this blog and my other blogs to keep me researching and studying.

Just think of all the people in your life who simply refuse to budge on certain issues and beliefs. Think of all the “sacred cows” each of us has that could sure use a bit of prodding. We all like to think of ourselves as being open-minded, but few of us truly are. How many of us are truly willing to question those things we take for granted?


“Sometimes questions are more important than answers.”

~~~ Nancy Willard

If we could develop a willingness to question things, even things we’re certain we’re right about, we would find that we’d be awakened from our complacency — that our minds would be more supple — and we’d be more open to understanding people and perspectives that meant nothing to us before. What great reasons these are to maintain that child-like inquisitiveness, no matter how experienced we think we are or how many years we’ve been on this planet.

In the Zen Buddhist tradition, this willingness to question — to stay open in our minds to new possibilities — is known as “The Beginner’s Mind”. Think of all the new possibilities that we would never see as long as we maintain our viewpoint that we already know something and we remain closed to another point of view? This concept of being willing to question things doesn’t mean that we therefore don’t believe in anything. It doesn’t mean we have to question everything in the world every minute of the day. It’s merely a way of acknowledging to ourselves that we’re humble enough to admit we don’t know much about this ever-changing universe of ours.


“He who has a why can endure any how”

~~~ Friedrich Nietzsche

Most of the amazing progress and change that has happened in our history has happened because someone, somewhere, questioned something and by doing so revealed a new truth — another way of doing something. Even new standards of ethical or moral behavior came about because some old belief was questioned and new knowledge was obtained. This can even happen in our own individual lives. Our old ways of dealing with certain aspects of our life can be changed for the better just because we examine and question the way those old beliefs made us feel.

Keep your “Beginner’s Mind” active and stay open to new ways of living your life and you’ll find new levels of peace and happiness every day.


“He who asks a question is a fool for five minutes; he who does not ask a question remains a fool forever”

~~~ Chinese Proverb

Namaste!

And, as I always say in closing — remember these words …


You are the most precious gift you can give yourself. Every day look in the mirror and say, “I’m available to more good than I have experienced, realized or imagined ever before in my life!” Do this every day while you look into your own eyes.

You are special — and you are loved. You are the greatest gift you can be.

Shanti … (A sanscrit word meaning, “Let there be Peace. Peace, beautiful Peace. Peace within, Peace without. Peace in this world. Peace for all beings.”)


“Peace comes from within. Do not seek it without.”

~~~ Buddha

~~~ DBL-R

P.S. Remember, that if you have one of the “readers” — like My Yahoo, My MSN, or the Google Reader, or any of the others, you can get our blog sent to you automatically, whenever I post to it. Just click one of the buttons over on the left side to add it to your reader.
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As you know, I do practice sitting, silent meditation every day in my life. Recently, I did a podcast about this for another blog that I read. Take a moment and click this link to hear what meditation means to me and what it does for me.

My Meditation Podcast

In my meditation I use what I truly believe is the most powerful personal growth and mind development tool on earth. It’s the The Holosync Solution. I knew that meditation was a vital element to nurturing my soul — to opening myself to the universe — and this tool has allowed me to achieve and receive the benefits of deep, long-term meditation — and to achieve it much more quickly. If you’re having trouble “getting meditation to work for you” – then the The Holosync Solution is what you’re looking for.

Regular, daily meditation can give you …

(1) Increased intelligence and creativity.
(2) Lower stress levels — and with that — increased ability to handle whatever the world tosses your way.
(3) New levels of self-awareness and inner peace.
(4) The healing of emotional issues at the deepest levels —

— it’s definitely worth taking the time for this powerful practice every day.

With a One-Year 100% Iron-Clad Guarantee, you can now do so with no risk whatsoever — just click any of the links that say … The Holosync Solution

The Holosync Solution

====================================================================


BODY BALANCE is amazing liquid vitamins that taste great! Containing the essential 121 macro and trace minerals, amino acids, and enzymes the body is missing! Tremendously helps you to quit any addiction; caffeine, cigarettes, sugar, alcohol etc... Body receives 98% absorption! Liquid nutrition you will FEEL the difference!Receive a FREE 2-WEEK SUPPLY
of 100% Organic Raw Whole Food Liquid Nutrition!!

Copy this ID# 20369984 and Click Here! (shipping charge is not included)

"I’ve been taking Body Balance since 2001 and LOVE the energy and mental alertness it brings into my body and mind.  These 121 nutrients are amazing and could change your life!"   
~~Ron Rink~~

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